Allow selecting "prejoin" events by state keys (#14642)

* Declare new config

* Parse new config

* Read new config

* Don't use trial/our TestCase where it's not needed

Before:

```
$ time trial tests/events/test_utils.py > /dev/null

real	0m2.277s
user	0m2.186s
sys	0m0.083s
```

After:
```
$ time trial tests/events/test_utils.py > /dev/null

real	0m0.566s
user	0m0.508s
sys	0m0.056s
```

* Helper to upsert to event fields

without exceeding size limits.

* Use helper when adding invite/knock state

Now that we allow admins to include events in prejoin room state with
arbitrary state keys, be a good Matrix citizen and ensure they don't
accidentally create an oversized event.

* Changelog

* Move StateFilter tests

should have done this in #14668

* Add extra methods to StateFilter

* Use StateFilter

* Ensure test file enforces typed defs; alphabetise

* Workaround surprising get_current_state_ids

* Whoops, fix mypy

1 files changed, 18 insertions, 11 deletions

diff --git a/synapse/handlers/message.py b/synapse/handlers/message.py
index d6e90ef259..845f683358 100644
--- a/synapse/handlers/message.py
+++ b/synapse/handlers/message.py
@@ -50,6 +50,7 @@ from synapse.event_auth import validate_event_for_room_version
 from synapse.events import EventBase, relation_from_event
 from synapse.events.builder import EventBuilder
 from synapse.events.snapshot import EventContext
+from synapse.events.utils import maybe_upsert_event_field
 from synapse.events.validator import EventValidator
 from synapse.handlers.directory import DirectoryHandler
 from synapse.logging import opentracing
@@ -1739,12 +1740,15 @@ class EventCreationHandler:
 
             if event.type == EventTypes.Member:
                 if event.content["membership"] == Membership.INVITE:
-                    event.unsigned[
-                        "invite_room_state"
-                    ] = await self.store.get_stripped_room_state_from_event_context(
-                        context,
-                        self.room_prejoin_state_types,
-                        membership_user_id=event.sender,
+                    maybe_upsert_event_field(
+                        event,
+                        event.unsigned,
+                        "invite_room_state",
+                        await self.store.get_stripped_room_state_from_event_context(
+                            context,
+                            self.room_prejoin_state_types,
+                            membership_user_id=event.sender,
+                        ),
                     )
 
                     invitee = UserID.from_string(event.state_key)
@@ -1762,11 +1766,14 @@ class EventCreationHandler:
                         event.signatures.update(returned_invite.signatures)
 
                 if event.content["membership"] == Membership.KNOCK:
-                    event.unsigned[
-                        "knock_room_state"
-                    ] = await self.store.get_stripped_room_state_from_event_context(
-                        context,
-                        self.room_prejoin_state_types,
+                    maybe_upsert_event_field(
+                        event,
+                        event.unsigned,
+                        "knock_room_state",
+                        await self.store.get_stripped_room_state_from_event_context(
+                            context,
+                            self.room_prejoin_state_types,
+                        ),
                     )
 
             if event.type == EventTypes.Redaction: